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Does he like me: 19 clear signs that a man likes you

"Does he like me?" is for sure the most asked question among women in the dating world.

They talk about it with their friends, they read articles about the “signs” to watch out for, they analyze every interaction, every text, every facial expression, everything in the hope of getting an unreachable answer.

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But it's sad that this is just a huge waste of time and energy because it's incredibly easy to decipher whether a man is into you or not.

Strictly speaking, I can summarize this article in one sentence: if a man is into you then it's obvious.

Every day I get the same question on Facebook, in the comments, in the group, in my inbox ... Namely: does he like me? Does he have feelings for me? Is he interested in me?

And, to be honest, if you've got to the heart of the matter and need to ask that ... Then you already have your answer.

It's really easy, but I know women love to look for signs because they just want to recognize and see it.

First up, I've provided a list of the obvious signs a man likes you.

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Later we will dig a little deeper into the whole thing and see why these situations confuse women.

We'll also see how we adjust ourselves to a broken heart. Let's get started.

Does he like me 19 clear signs that a man likes you

1. Body language signals

He may not say anything with his words, but his body language will let you know his exact point of view.

The biggest sign that he cares about you is that he is staring at you. That makes sense. Men are visual creatures.

When you see something you like, you look at it and you can't stop. Another thing to look out for is something called an "eyebrow flash."

Basically, this means that he will twitch his eyebrows when he sees you and you are the object of his desire.

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But be careful because it is easy to miss this sign if you wink. So don't let yourself down if you don't notice right away.

He will make eye contact and stare at your face when he talks to you. His eyes could jump from your eyes to your lips and back again.

He will also lean on and turn his body in your direction when talking to you.

He might also boast a little when he sees you. He could get his hair, tie, or shirt just right. He does this because ... well, he wants to look his best for you.

Another thing you might notice is that he's getting a bit fidgety, like he's forgotten how to use his hands.

Make sure you have this article on hand to find the exact body language signs that suggest he likes you.

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2. Does he like me: eye contact

The eyes are the mirror of the soul ... and they are also an insight into how a guy feels about you.

We've talked a little bit about this in the Body Language Signals section, but it needs to be repeated and discussed in more depth.

If a guy likes you he'll look at you. If you talk to him, he will most likely make eye contact.

This is perhaps the most intimate thing you can do with a person without actually becoming intimate. If you want to test it, try to fix his gaze for four seconds.

If he continues, then he will be interested. If he looks to the side and scans the room then he's probably not interested.

And as I said, when his eyes wander to your mouth, he definitely likes you and is attracted to you.

What if his eyes wander everywhere? Well, that doesn't always mean he doesn't like you. It's possible he's just shy, nervous, or insecure.

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So you have to look at everything in context. If he doesn't give signs that he likes you and doesn't make eye contact, then he probably doesn't like you.

Pay attention to his pupils too. Studies have shown that when people look at something or someone they like, the pupils dilate. But don't cling to this thing too much.

It won't work when you're in a dark environment, and you may look a little insane if you examine his pupils too hard.

Finally, also pay close attention to how he acts when he is telling a joke or a funny story.

If a guy likes you then he will look your way to see if he made you laugh.

3. Does he like me? - He praises himself

When a man likes you, he'll want to present himself in the best possible light, and often guys can't help but express their point of view with words.

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Pay attention to what he says. Is he talking about himself? Does he tell you about his achievements and successes?

Does he do something like a so-called "humble showing off" ... "Today I only ran 12 kilometers, nothing special.".

If so, then he likes you and tries to present himself as a worthy candidate.

Also, notice how he reacts when you speak. Does he lean in closer and maybe lightly caress your back? Or does he look away and move nervously, as if trying to find an excuse to end the conversation?

A guy who doesn't like you will feel uncomfortable if you stimulate his personal space. And a guy who likes you will welcome any interference with open arms.

4. While we're at touch ... How does he react when you touch him?

If a guy likes you, he will find a way to touch you, whether openly or "not on purpose" and he will welcome all your touches.

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Pay attention to all signs of physical contact. They could be obvious, like an arm around your waist, or more subtle, if your legs accidentally touch while sitting and he doesn't move his away.

Or is your high five taking a little longer than normal? The point is that he will always find a way to make your bodies touch.

Also, notice how he reacts when you touch him. Does he tense up and step back, or is he warm and receptive?

The caveats here are that he may be shy or embarrassed, or he may be especially nervous about touching a woman he likes.

Or he can also be a playboy who welcomes all of the physical affections of women with open arms. Pay attention to the whole picture, not just the little things.

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5. Does he like me? - He treats you differently

If a man likes you, you will get a different status in his life and he will treat you differently. Maybe he's one of those guys who flirt with everyone, but with you he'll flirt differently.

If he's a macho guy, he could soften it up by being with you and showing a gentler and gentler side of himself. He might be a bit protective of you.

He could hold your hand when you go down steep stairs, protect you with his body when you walk through a crowd, or just take care of yourself.

Pay attention to the way he treats other people and compare that to the way he treats you. If there is a difference, he most likely likes you.

6. He gets nervous / restless when you are around him

Even the most confident man will act a little nervous around the woman he likes.

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Some signs of nervousness are: he begins to sweat, his face becomes red, he becomes restless, he stutters and stumbles over his words and often has to take a deep breath.

You can recognize these things when you perceive them.

Quick note: don't challenge him with this, it will only embarrass and confuse him even more. Just take some quiet comfort in the fact that you are making him nervous.

If he's nervous around you, it means he really wants to make a good impression and doesn't want to say or do anything stupid to screw up.

But even in this case, consider it again. Or, it could be that he's just a nervous guy in general. Even if he's like that all the time, it doesn't mean much.

But if the nervous guy around you is getting particularly nervous, then he most likely likes you a lot.

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7. He cares about your interests

You tell him that you have just been to a concert and he asks which band, how it was, what your favorite songs are, how long you have liked them. In principle, he wants to know everything.

He shows intrigue and interest in the things that interest you. And he takes advantage of this to get to know you better. He could also go a little deeper and ask more questions.

That's another big sign that he likes you. When we like someone, we want to know everything about them.

8. He mirrors you

Mirroring is a subconscious thing that we do when we like someone. Basically, it means he's copying your actions.

Maybe it's mirroring you or the way you cross your arms.

A great way to show mutual interest is to mirror it. Touch your face when he touches his, change your posture when he angles to the left, cross your legs in the same direction as him, etc.

That he wants to be around you is also an important sign. If you are in a crowded place, he will surely always find a way to you. No matter where he is, he always seems to get through to you.

9. Does he like me? - He playfully teases you

Do you remember elementary school when that one boy pulled your pigtails to show that he liked you?

Well, not much has changed other than the way you tease has gotten a little more sophisticated. In fact, we never really grow up!

If a man likes you, he will playfully tease you. He could make fun of you (in a carefree way, hopefully he doesn't take advantage of your greatest insecurities and weaknesses!).

He could playfully slap you on the arm or tease you about a stain on your shirt or something else silly and harmless.

But beware of a guy who goes a little too far with teasing. If he is crossing the line from teasing to being aggressive, stay away from him.

10. His friends know everything about you

If he likes you, then most likely he's told his friends about you.

He may not have come out and said, "I like this woman," but he must have told them stories about you or something that happened when he was with you.

The point is, he mentioned your name in the conversation.

Notice how his friends react to you. Do they recognize you? Do they know a lot about you? Smile at you specifically, as if to say, "Ohh, you are such-and-those!"

11. He notices things about your appearance

A new hairstyle, a new sweater, new make-up; he always notices when you change your appearance. The reason is obvious.

He's staring at you a lot, he's memorized every feature and of course he can see when something changes.

12. He shows up where you are

If you mentioned that you love to ski on the weekend and suddenly he shows up on the slopes, then chances are he is into you.

If he happens to stop by the party you two were invited to and walk straight to your location - unless you're standing next to the beer - then he's probably into you.

If he follows you at the party and tries to start a conversation, congratulations, then he likes you.

13. Does he compliment you?

Compliments are a great way to gauge a man's interest. Of course, many men can compliment if they aren't really serious about getting you to bed.

But if they really like you, they'll likely start complimenting you on subtle things that you may not be aware of.

It could be unique tidbits about your personality, or they could notice subtle changes in your hairstyle.

Sometimes it might not even be a compliment, but the fact that they noticed you changed your hairstyle or used a different makeup.

If they notice, it means they are paying you attention and they are likely to like you.

Also, not many men are good at complimenting, so keep your ears open and be aware when he says something that might even remotely be considered a compliment.

If you've noticed that he's not really complimenting others, then he probably likes you.

14. Does he playfully hit you in the arm?

This may seem surprising, but it's actually a common signal that a man likes you.

It's a man's "masculine way" to relate to you without being too brash.

If you laugh with him when he hits you, it gives him a signal that you are interested too.

If you don't like him hitting you, but you do like him, then laugh playfully and say “Ouch, that hurt!”. He probably won't do it again, but your smile and playfulness will show that you like him.

If you like the banter, playfully hit him back. This could really help build sexual tension!

15. You make him feel important

For a man, the essential feeling for a woman is often what separates “like” from “love”.

Don't get me wrong, no doubt your man loves your strength and your ability to be independent. But he still wants to feel wanted and useful - not dispensable!

This is because men have a built-in need for something “bigger” that goes beyond love or sex.

This is why men who appear to have the "perfect girlfriend" are still unhappy and constantly looking for something else - or worse, someone else.

Put simply, men have a biological drive to feel needed, to feel important, and to care for the woman who is important to them.

16. Does he like me? - What is he doing to his face?

For example, he might lick his lips when talking to you.This is a classic sign that he is attracted to you and wants to do more than just look at you.

If his eyes are bright and wide and his pupils are dilated, you can bet he is thinking of you and what the rest of the date might bring you both.

His eyes tell you what his body is thinking. He's smiling at you, not in a creepy way - stop smiling - now, but in a sweet and attentive way.

Maybe he'll show you his pearly white eyes so you know he's neat and tidy, what men think, what's important to women, whatever it is, but in reality it's a biological "look what I have" thing .

His eyebrows will move up and down, and his facial gestures will be attentive.

After all, all eyes are on you. If he's in love with you and wants to see more of you, he won't be able to take his eyes off you.

And his eyes will be on yours.

Of course, if his eyes are flying all over the place and he's distracted by what's around you, chances are he's not interested.

17. He lets you know about his future plans

If he talks about his plans for the future (especially his personal plans), then there is a fair chance he will genuinely like you.

And why?

Because he may see a future with you and he is trying to figure out if you fit into his plans.

Maybe he's trying to impress you too. He's trying to show you that he's a man with ambition and a future.

He's not just some short-term minded guy. He knows he has a long future ahead of him and he wants to take you on the journey.

18. Does he like me? - He wants to help you with your problems

Men are problem solvers. And when it comes to someone they like, they want to find a solution to every problem they hear about.

They also want to impress you with their solutions.

So, if you mention a problem you have and he likes you, he'll likely search his brain for solutions.

A guy who likes you will take the trouble. He will want to be your hero who will save the day.

19. It's obvious

It's just obvious when a man likes you. You know, he knows, everyone around you knows.

That really is the only sign you need. The mark that surpasses all others. You'll learn about that later in the article, so stay tuned.

Does he like me - Why is it so confusing?

Okay, if the signs are so clear and it's so obvious why are so many women so confused in this area?

I can't blame you - I've been through the same thing many times before.

You meet a guy and feel the chemistry, maybe he asks for your number, sends you flirtatious messages, maybe you meet a couple of times, but he doesn't officially ask you out on a date and he doesn't give you any clue about how he's feeling .

He seems crazy about you, and you know the chemistry you're feeling can't possibly be one-sided, so what the hell is going on here?

Are you wasting your time in a dead end, or do you just have to wait a little longer before entering into a relationship?

The reasons I've come up with over the years trying to figure out if a guy liked me and explain why he didn't ask me out on a date are really out of this world.

Maybe he's just scared of ruining the friendship ... maybe he likes me so much he's scared ... maybe he's intimidated by me ... maybe he thinks I'll reject him.

I've considered every possible scenario except the obvious…. that he might be in love with me, but not enough to make it important.

What confuses most women is this gray area, the area where he shows interest but doesn't get it, and you just don't know how he feels.

But the thing is: you already know. It is obvious. He cares about you, he has fun with you, but he just doesn't like you enough.

Or maybe he likes you, but he just doesn't think you would work as a couple - and if he feels that way, then he's probably not the man for you.

I know how hard it is not to take things like this personally. I mean, if you like him and he doesn't like you the same way, then there must be something wrong with you, right? Not correct.

Not everyone is a match, not everyone is compatible, and sometimes the timing just isn't right and that's something completely out of your control.

Does he like me - The fantasy future

Another reason many of us are so confused in this area is because we hold onto the vision of how things should be instead of seeing what is real.

Since you want a relationship with him, you cling to any sign that suggests he wants the same thing.

Instead of putting them together to see the bigger picture, you focus solely on the small pieces of the puzzle.

A puzzle piece can be completely ambiguous when viewed individually, so you can create your own interpretation of what it means.

I often refer to this obsessive mindset as an “emotional detective”.

Women rummage through their memories and remarks, going through every little and insignificant detail in an attempt to uncover a “hidden message” or “secret code” that the man is sending.

The reality is that by playing emotional detective you can usually only do one thing: drive yourself absolutely crazy!

The problem is, obsessing over can make it feel like it's paying off.

As if there was a reward for all the time and energy spent figuring out what is what…. but there won't be any.

Men do not hide the interest

Men are generally purposeful. They see something they want and they chase it. That's what makes them tick.

It is not in a man's nature to withdraw when he sees an opportunity to go after a woman he likes.

Men usually don't play games or do things to deliberately deceive or manipulate you.

If a man likes you, he is attracted to you.

He wants to be in your presence, he finds reasons to talk to you, he is present in your life and he gives you a special kind of attention that he doesn't give to anyone else.

He becomes more alive around you, he is excited to see you, he loves hanging out with you, and he wants to get to know you better.

If he does, a relationship will either develop out of it or not. (If not, it's likely because he saw that you weren't compatible.)

It is obvious…

When a guy likes you, you just know. You see it in the way he looks at you, how he talks to you and how he includes you in his life. You see it in everything.

When I started dating my husband, I remember that when it took him a while to text me back, he always gave me an explanation as to why ... for example something like, "I'm sorry, I went to a noisy bar and couldn't hear my phone."

But I never expected him to reply to my texts immediately, and I never expected or needed an explanation.

People are busy; sometimes I am out and about for hours without reacting to texts. It happens.

His explanations for his late texts were his way of showing me that I was important to him and that he would never read any of my texts and never respond.

A little thing that spoke volumes. And when a man likes you there are tons of examples like this one. You don't even have to ask, you just know.

You are not worried about the relationship and you are not stressed out. To be that would be really crazy. Even if you're just dating and not official, don't worry.

You know how he feels And the people around you know how he feels. Your friends will see, your family will see, and the waitress will see. It'll just be obvious.

If he likes you and wants to be with you, he will make sure you get it.

If he likes you but doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, then ... Who cares? Why do you even think about him?

I made the mistake of waiting for a man to pull himself together and believe me these situations never end well.

You have to live for yourself, you have to live according to your schedule, you cannot and must not invest in what could be - you have to recognize and appreciate what is.

Does he like me - What to focus on

Focusing on getting a guy to like you or figuring out if he likes you is of no use to you in any way.

What you should focus on is really liking yourself and finding happiness in your own life.

Believe me, I know it's a lot easier said than done, but that's what makes the difference.

The fact is, you have to trust the timing of your life. Trust that things will unfold the way they are supposed to be.

We don't have much control over anything in this life. You cannot control how a man feels, or when and how, and if, certain things will happen to and for you.

All you can do is find a way to be at peace, to accept yourself for who you are, and to love who you are.

There's no point in finding out that a guy likes you if he doesn't take the steps to be with you.

Well, maybe it's a little confirmation, but if he can't give you the relationship you want then it's pointless. Maybe one day it will work, maybe not.

You can't know things like that, so don't waste your energy predicting the future.

You can't always explain why things happen, and you definitely can't make someone feel a certain way and want certain things.

You just have to trust that everything will be fine and try not to panic in the middle of the sentence. Trust me, life has a way of really surprising you.

Bottom line: stop asking if a man likes you. Stop looking for the clues and signs. If you have to ask yourself, you have your answer. When a guy likes you, it's obvious.

After reading this post, I hope that by now you really know how to find out if a guy likes you.